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by qualia
I'm glad the evaluator had the insight to recognize so many of the problems you were facing with these visitations. I also hope the father makes some progress with his mental issues. My heart goes out to you. This sounds like an incredibly hard situation. :( qualia
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Aug 29 '03
9:54 am PDT
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It seems hopeless (Reply to this comment)
by Penguinlady
It's hard to imagine that anyone believes that 16 hours of coaching and therapy will make an appreciable difference in this man's ability to function as a father. For whatever reason, some people just can't, and this seems to be one of them. Hang in there!
Margaret
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Aug 26 '03
8:15 pm PDT
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Thanks for the comments - UPDATE (Reply to this comment)
by bonniesayers
The ex was a no-show at court today. The Judge went over the recommendations from evaluator and asked me for my opinion.
He amended them to state that until my minivan is fixed or replaced the visits will be at my home and that the father will be paying for them. Also the father needs proof to give to monitor that he is under the care of a psychiatrist.
Hopefully with the stress of school starting next week our schedule will not be interrupted and since he has no money doubt many visits will take place.
Bonnie
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Aug 26 '03
7:37 pm PDT
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Sheesh (Reply to this comment)
by char.mike
They need to do what is best for your boys and NOT having this man around is best.
Bonnie, my heart goes out to you.
Hugs, Char
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Aug 26 '03
4:24 pm PDT
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Sheesh (Reply to this comment)
by char.mike
They need to do what is best for your boys and is NOT to have that man around.
Bonnie, my heart goes out to you.
Hugs, Char
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Aug 26 '03
4:23 pm PDT
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((((((((((BONNIE)))))))))))))) (Reply to this comment)
by braggio
So sorry that you have to deal with all of that. Mostly feeling sad that your children must endure it all. It's a good thing they have such a devoted mother.
Tam
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Aug 25 '03
1:07 pm PDT
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wow (Reply to this comment)
by artemis8
Sounds like a terrible situation. I hope are able to convince the court to allow you to provide the best situation for your sons.
Karyn
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Aug 25 '03
11:01 am PDT
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by katmar
I so hope things improve for you, Bonnie. It sounds like everything, and everyone, is on your side, and just as importantly, the side of the children.
I can't imagine what you've been through. I hope you have a ton of emotional support, as this must just knock you down and out sometimes.
Thanks for sharing all of this. I know for me, it helps me to know you better, and if you ever need to vent, or just want to talk, drop me a line anytime. I may not be able to do much, but I can always listen.
My best,
Marsha
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Aug 24 '03
8:03 pm PDT
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Hey Bonnie, (Reply to this comment)
by chilliebrady
Your boys are lucky to have you as a mom. Sorry to hear you are going through all of this.
Hugs,
Toni
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Aug 24 '03
7:05 pm PDT
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Keep fighting for your rights (Reply to this comment)
by grandgram
Soon they have to discover that this man is a menace to his own sons. Why do these agencies work for a happy ending when there is no way it will work with this person.
You are one amazing woman.
Letta
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Aug 24 '03
8:14 am PDT
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:) (Reply to this comment)
by marybatson
And I complain about my life... God Bless you and your boys!
Mary
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Aug 23 '03
11:51 pm PDT
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Your ex... (Reply to this comment)
by moonsista
Your ex makes my loser ex-boyfriends look like princes. I admire your commitment to your sons and am glad that they have such a wonderful mother.
Thanks for sharing -
Stacey
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Aug 23 '03
7:02 pm PDT
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Geez (Reply to this comment)
by theresaro
Why the heck can't they see that the father needs help there is something definately wrong with this picture.. Again my prayers go out to you and your children.
Teri
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Aug 23 '03
3:36 pm PDT
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Hey (Reply to this comment)
by shoplmart
I don't think I have ever read anything quite like this before. Thanks
Liz
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Aug 23 '03
1:12 pm PDT
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